Amusing Musings

Oxford

Being abroad was a breath of fresh air, at least most days. There were some moments I don’t need pictures for: watching the sun rise from a boat on the Isis, walking in the Magdalen deer park as sun beams flowed over the gates, and standing on the roof of the Lafayette taking in a view of Paris that literally took my breath away.

Oxford itself was small (maybe a bit too small, as I felt in the end) but intriguing. I arrived feeling a sense of wonder at the school’s diverse history; down the street from Stanford House was a plaque indicating the place where Robert Hooke observed the first living cell. A rather hidden plaque nearby denotes Halley’s house (Halley of Halley’s comet), and another marks the house of a pre-Raphaelite muse, which I would not have appreciated before this quarter. In light of recent events, I remember spotting a caricature of Christopher Hitchens on the wall of the Balliol college bar.

As a school, Oxford was different from Stanford in that being a classics major seemed to be the norm, and stating that you were a classics major wasn’t followed up with “So, what are you going to do with that?” Students I met seemed genuinely, deeply interested in what they studied in a way that’s just different from kids here. I suppose you have to be, if you’re going to write that many tutorials.

Small things made each day. Finding shelter in a warm pub on cold days was comforting. Cider and gossip were a perfect duo, but perhaps not as perfect as tea and a scone with good company. What I loved most, though, was the abundant free time that allowed me to just chill and talk after my one class. I wouldn’t say that I had the time of my life at Oxford, but it’s a time that I know I’ll miss come winter quarter. 

Honestly, I can’t tell the difference between contemporary dance routines - I just want to jump like that.

The mother tongue, sort of

“Typewriter” was one of the answers (or rather, questions) on Jeopardy today, prompting my dad to reminisce about my mom’s old typewriter in Shanghai. “She was typing in English 20 years before you were born,” my dad joked to me.

“Yet I still think in Chinese,” she replied.

I never consciously thought about which language my parents think in, but of course this makes sense - twenty years in a new country can’t quite replace the thirty years in a home country. It’s weird to realize this, though. I think “tomorrow,” they think “ming tian” - even when we think of sentences with equivalent meanings, there might be some subtlety that one of us overlooks in the other’s thoughts.  

How strange it must be for your daughter to grow up with a different language than you. The words that come so naturally to you, that you’ve used to express yourself for a lifetime, are words she may never learn. It seems less weird from my angle, but that’s probably because I’ve never envisioned a future where my children won’t grow up speaking English (although according to my dad, my kids will grow up speaking Chinese so I should get used to the idea).

My parents’ lives have unfolded in ways that they literally thought were impossible when they were young. I feel like I have a much better idea of where I’ll sitting in 30 years - but I guess this just goes to show that maybe I actually don’t. 

I met up with an old friend today. We reminisced over bonding in high school about what we thought was real and significant - today we tried to remember what it was and couldn’t. I realized how she’d grown in the past two years in ways that I don’t think I could have imagined in high school, and it made me happy. I think maybe it gave me hope for myself, too.

Though I feel like I’m in limbo between being a teen and an adult (reminds me of Britney’s “I’m Not a Girl Not Yet a Woman”, haha), I’m beginning to feel excited as I teeter towards the other side. For the first time, what has made me feel worried and uncertain is starting to make me feel eager to know what’s on the next page.

The Good Short Life 

I don’t know if it’s because I keep reading that my childhood is over in Facebook statuses and Tumblr posts, but I really feel like it’s true this time.  It seems like this is one of the last things I had to hold on to - I graduated from high school, I went to college, I’ve been “encouraged” to figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life - and now Harry Potter is over. Maybe it doesn’t seem to match up with the other events, but counting down the days till a HP release is one of those things that I’ll never do again, a list of things that seems to grow every year. 

This is peripherally related (as it’s related to my childhood): can someone explain to me what is going on in Britney Spears’s new video? I miss this.

OMGRYFFINDOR 

This is effing AWESOME. If you don’t have time to re-read in the next week (omg! 1 week), this should do just fine. 

*Thanks, Sam :)

Basking in Russia's Love Long After a Musical Triumph 

I think for some Russians, the Tchaikovsky Competition might be the equivalent of the Super Bowl. 

Shanghai's Susan Boyle 

For you Chinese speakers out there! Watch this video, it made my mom and me cry from laughter. A 50-something year-old market woman (with an awesome voice, btw) transformed the lyrics of “O Sole Mio” into a ballad about her vegetables. 

It’s official, I’m old.

Yesterday at Souplantation, a little boy couldn’t reach over the counter to get a straw, so I got one for him as he turned away asking his dad to get one. His dad told him, “Look, turn around, the nice lady over there got you one.” 

Lady? I was mildly mortified. Granted, I don’t really know what else he would have called me. I think “girl” works fine, but maybe he thought I would’ve been insulted. I should probably just take it as a compliment of my obvious maturity. 

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